I am Gina, the heart behind Reigniting the Spark.
I’m deeply passionate about empowering women to build sensually vibrant, emotionally FULFILLING relationships.
Feeling Exhausted and Discouraged?
Attempting to rekindle that familiar spark yourself?
Yet something compels you forward in search of someone who can lead you through this emotional terrain with wisdom – back into a lasting connection. I know all too well and comprehend the determination and patience it takes to rekindle the spark in a relationship.
I deeply understand the longing in your heart...
You’re looking for reignited passion, as you’ve likely tried everything in hopes of progress. From trying various approaches to feeling on the verge of surrender, I’ve been there.
Some might have added to your feelings of isolation, but I’m here to meet you with genuine empathy. Your search for guidance in reigniting and deepening connections brought you here, and I’m excited to embark on this transformative journey with you.
I know what it feels like to be alone, not seen, and frustrated
My Journey
…began when reaching a breaking point after years of loneliness, hurting and trying. I was unhappy. And it was all his fault!
If only, he could see me again the way he used to.
If only he could look at me like he used to.
If only, he would spend time with me.
If only, he would put his phone down.
I was tired of trying to talk to him.
I was tired of trying to get him to understand.
He didn’t seem to care about me or us.
Nothing I tried worked.
One morning, my feet hit the floor, and that was the day I decided to take my life back, or rather give him a taste of what I had been going through. I was overwhelmed and burnt out.
I worked full time and every day I came home to care for the children, cook and clean. Let me tell you that he did not participate in those things.
I stopped doing all the wifely duties I had been tasked to do to see what would happen. As I embraced my newfound love, gym; I decided to start competing in bodybuilding in the bikini division.
Surprisingly, my confidence level went up.
Heads started to turn... except HIS.
This made me feel it was all me. “What is wrong with me? There must be something wrong with me.” It was a back-and-forth game of blaming.
I mean, was marriage supposed to be like this?
At one point I thought I figured it out by attending to my own needs, and I let him attend to his own needs. That only felt like we were on our own paths: two completely separate paths.
The wanting, yearning, and desire to be seen and heard led me down a path I am not proud of and caused lots more pain for both of us; my heart was led astray. We both said WE WERE DONE.
Here's the juicy part...
The most magical moment in what seemed to be a broken relationship came from two imperfectly perfect people letting their guard down and opening their hearts.
One morning we barely said a word to each other while simply relying upon our hearts to lead us the way. Both our hearts were wide open.
That moment was an unspoken… “let’s start over”.
“Be the change, to see the change!”
This insight must be the answer!
I decided to shift my focus from changing my husband to transforming myself. The journey inward brought reconnection, examination of conditioning, and removal of non-working paradigms.
As I was working through things I wanted to change, I realized…
Why you might feel insecure and no longer desired right now
Why you would feel rejected
Why your partner doesn’t pursue you anymore
Where YOUR hurt might stem from
The path of my relationship has led me to my purpose of helping women who are hurting and longing for connection.
Through my own journey of self-discovery and relationship transformation, I’ve gained invaluable insights that have shaped my beliefs about love, intimacy, and personal growth.
These beliefs form the foundation of my coaching philosophy and approach, guiding me as I support women in their own journeys toward fulfilling relationships.
I believe…..
Each of us shows up uniquely conditioned yet holds the power to consciously evolve beliefs and behaviors with self-awareness.
The most vital relationship starts inward.
Embracing your wholeness - shadows to light - builds the confidence and compassion required for courageous vulnerability.
Loving each underdeveloped aspect opens opportunities for growth.
Reconciling inner brokenness manifests outer relationship healing, making space for authentic connections.
You always can choose to step into new stories not serving your highest truths.
Through skillful listening brings compassionate connection through communication.
Feel Close Again: If you're feeling lonely or like you're not connecting with your partner, we've got ways to help you feel super close and happy together again.
Talk & Cuddle More: Sometimes, talking gets hard and cuddling doesn't happen as much. We’ll work on how to communicate better and bring back those warm, fuzzy feelings!
Be You & Feel Great: If you're feeling lost or not sure about yourself, I’m here to help you feel confident and make sure you're seen, heard and understood.
Trust & Respect: If someone broke your trust or isn't listening to what you need, I’ve got your back. Let’s rebuild that trust and make sure everyone respects each other's space.
Be Confident and Know Your Self-Worth: If you're struggling to love and accept yourself, I'm here to help. Let's boost your self-worth and confidence so you can embrace the intimacy and love you truly deserve.